Thursday, November 19, 2015
Monday, April 20, 2015
I truly understood the meaning of appalling working conditions. One of the clerks had put a couple of card boards on their chair because the seat of the chair was broken.
PS: The officials were very helpful sorted out the documents, and in about a day's time we got the relevant insurance approvals and availed cashless treatment facility. We did cover the shortfall.
Friday, April 17, 2015
Tuesday, April 29, 2014
This couplet made me think about delegation more seriously than I normally would. In order to successfully get things done, first you need to understand what needs to be done. In a simple, single word இதனை Valluvar has said "Understand the job that needs to be done in such a way that you are able to succinctly describe to someone else". According to Albert Einstein, If you can't explain it simply, you have not understood it well enough. That's the essence of first word of this couplet.
Now lets look at the second word - இதனால். This word quiet literally translates as "Because", here Valluar in a single word manages to say "articulate your reasons for choosing that person" implying "In order for you to match the job at hand to the right person, you need to have a very good understanding of the level of skill that would be required to compete the job, and the skill level of the potential candidates for the task".
இவன் முடிக்கும் - These words literally translate to "He will complete". Given the value of rest of the couplet and the fact that the Indian society was (and to a great extent is still) patriarchal I choose to overlook the bias towards "male" gender and interpret it as "this person will complete". By saying "this person" what Valluar actually says is "choose": thereby implying "consider more than one option and based on certain criteria select the best person for the job".
The last line அதனை அவன்கண் விடல் - Leave that (job) to that person. The emphasis is on the last word "விடல்" - it translates as "leave". A key part of delegation is to "leave" it to the person you are delegating to. From that point onwards, its that person's responsibility. You don't keep following up every now and then or micro manage. To be able to "leave" it to someone, over and above the understanding of skills, job, as described above, you also need to be able to "Trust" that person.
Thursday, October 03, 2013
I have two wonderful kids. I have a constant fear, deep down, that I may die way before I could pass on all the wisdom (really?) that I managed to learn (did I?).
What would I want to pass on to them ? Here we go...
1. Courage - it does not mean absence of fear. It means doing something, in spite of fear. It means that realizing that something is more important than the discomfort, pain and hurt.
2. Failure, embrace it.
Thomas Edison failed 10,000 times trying to invent the light bulb and after the 10,000th time; he succeed. You don't fail till you quit !!!! Its far better to attempt and fail than not attempting at all. You may be scared about failing and may make the worst decision you could make - that is to make no decision. It will paralyze you. Decide, act and deal with the consequence. Refer to point 1.
3. Anything worth having is worth waiting for. Every thing will happen in its own time. What matters is what you do when you wait. Prepare, prepare and prepare while you wait.
4. For every bad man you find, there is a good man out there.
5. You have the power to choose. You may not have much control over the situations you find yourself in. You have 100% control over how you respond. Make a wise choice. Refer to points 1, 2, 3 4 and 5 while you consider your options and apply point 6.
6. The ECE Cycle (TM) - ride it all the time. ECE Cycle (TM) - Evaluate, Choose, Execute - cycle.
7. Pride is a virtue. Take pride in what you do. Be passionate about what you do. There is nothing called a bad job, but there is something called a job done badly. If you become a programmer, be the bloody best you can be. If you become a janitor, be the bloody best at it. Take pride in what you do.
8. Always choose skill over money, fame, power. Become a master at your chosen skill set. Others will follow.
9. Be selective, very selective. Apparently there was a creature similar to swan. If you feed it with a mix of water and milk, it would filter out the water and consume only the milk. Develop an attitude like that. Ignore the negatives (in people, events, ideas - in short everything), absorb the positives.
PS: There is a reason why I have not given the lesson number 10. Its for the kids to figure out.
Saturday, August 24, 2013
Monday, July 29, 2013
Saturday, May 11, 2013
பூமி - நான்
என் நிலவு நீயல்லவா?
I am the earth
(that) loves an eclipse
For, you are my moon.
சுற்றும் என் பூமிக்கு
நீதானடி ஞாயிறு !!
You are the sun
(that) my world revolves around
Moth - me
Lamp - you.
Friday, April 19, 2013
Saturday, April 06, 2013
Do read the original article (it if you can read tamil) Rain drops: அக்ரீமெண்ட்
A rough translation here.
Title : Agreement
After ten long years of searching for a bride, finally Kasthuri's son's wedding is around the corner. Do you know what it would cost to get him married to a girl?
On the auspicious day, Sankaran puts the "thaali" on to Shankari's neck, and Shankari puts the "thaali" on to Shankaran's neck. It was decided between the groom and the bride, that they will exchange "thaali" and enter the married life as equals. Agreement number one.
Grooms mother, congratulates the brides parents, and says "We have raised him well with all our love, and he is very special to us. From now on, he is yours, please take care of him. We have got a dish washer, washing machine as wedding gifts. The apartment that we have bought for him, is fully furnished and ready to move in. He is undergone a one month training with Kitchen Master Dhanu. He even has got a certificate of course completion, he will cook very well". Agreement number two.
Bride's mother says, "Have no worries, we will handle him, by the way, you promised you will give 450 grams gold, 10 kilogram silver as wedding gift (dowry) to our daughter, what happened to that?" Agreement number three.
Grooms mother hands over the keys to the locker where the gold and sliver are deposited. She also hands over her son's Bank documents, ATM card, etc and requests, "Please do give him generous pocket money"
Finally, to her son and daughter in law - god bless you both, I will now leave, whenever you find time, please do visit me in the old age home, bye! - Agreement number four.
Monday, April 01, 2013
Saturday, March 30, 2013
Sunday, March 24, 2013
Tuesday, March 19, 2013
- அருமையான சிந்தனை. செல்லும் இடதில்லெல்லாம் என்னில் ஒரு பகுதியை விட்டுசெல்வதாய் பொருள் பதிந்த இந்த கவிதை என்னை மிகவும் கவர்ந்தது.
Sunday, March 17, 2013
Rain drops: மோரோ மோர் - More: அம்மா 'மோர்' வரையிலும் போய் வரலாம் வருகிறாயா? கொஞ்சம் சாமான்கள் வாங்க வேண்டும் என்றாள் மகள். மதியத் தூக்கக் கலக்கத்தில்,'மோரைக...
Monday, February 18, 2013
While I remember the Dialoges from Kattabomman, I able to recollect only the first line from Socrates -
It was something like "Yen?, etharku? endru kel" - Meaning "Ask why and what for"
Such a powerful dialog!! The first step twowards knowledge and wisdom is to ask Why.
Sakichi Toyoda took asking why to a new level. He suggests that when you want to understand a problem or trying to find the root cause, don't just ask Why once, ask it five times.
More on 5 Whys here.
I remember in 2004, there was an attempt to "ban" the event, resulting from a law suit filed by a parent who lost his young boy, and from then every year there is a lot of noise from the Animal Rights activists and other activists to do away with the ancient tradition of Jallikattu.
Jallikattu is part and parcel of Tamil identity. Hardcore Tamils, might not consider me as "Tamil" but I feel as "Tamil" as any "Tamil" can ever be, and it is part of my "Identity".
I grew up listening to stories and poems from "Sanga Iilakkiam" ("Sangam literature" dating back several thousands of years) extolling the virtues of valour and honor. Its an honor to be scarred in battles and Jallikattu (aka Yeruthazuvuthal). Its an honor to be killed in battle, mind you if you got stabbed in the back that's the worst disgrace you can bring to your family, and so on....
The views taken by animal rights activists, I suppose stems from the fact that there are acts of cruelty perpetrated by some Bull owners and more importantly the poor bull that is trying to get the hell away from the mob and the trauma associated with it. (I wonder how many of the animal rights activists are vegetarian? and what is their position on "Animal farming")
To me, the issue is slightly different. Due to the ever changing nature of the demographies and shrinking world, the conflicts between cultures and values are becoming more and more prominent. It is not a new phenominon, its been going on for centuries, but now its more acute than the previous centuries.
Jallikaatu is just one instance. We can find many more instances at a pan India level, where the progressive and liberal face of India is taking to a western value system and start marginalising, trivialising and dare I say, ridiculing the traditions rooted in some key principles that encourage values like Honor, Valor, Loyalty, Community to name a few.
I dont mean to accept and follow the traditions just because they are traditions, but to seek an understanding, ask why (5 Why's), re-engineer it to suit mordern times without compromising on the principles and values the tradition embodies.
Saturday, February 09, 2013
சுய சிந்தனை இன்றியே ஓட்டளிப்பாய்?
பித்தளை ஈயப் பாத்திரத்தை - நீ
தங்கமாய் வெள்ளியாய் பார்த்து ஏம்மாந்திடுவாய்?
மறு கன்னம் மீண்டும் காட்டி
இரு கன்னத்தில் பதிந்தது கைச்சின்னம்.
கொள்ளேன் என்பது உயர்ந்தன்று - கற்றதை
பள்ளியில் ஏனோ மறந்து வந்தாய்?
எழு ஞாயிறு தந்த எச்சதையும்
இரு இலைகள் தந்த மிச்சத்தையும்
ஜன நாயகம் என்ற போர்வையிலே
மானம் தொலைத்துப் போர்த்திக்கொண்டாய்!
பாரதத்தை பாஞ்சாலியாய் பார்த்தான் பாரதி!
ஏ நடுத்தர வர்க்கமே! இன்று
பாரதத்தில் பாஞ்சாலி நீ - விழித்துவிடு.
உண்மை தெளிந்துவிடு, கண்ணனும் நீ!!
அறுபது ஆண்டுகள் கடந்து வந்தாய்
காந்தியின் குரங்காய் கிடந்தது வந்தாய்!
சந்திர போசினை மறந்துவிட்டாய் - பகத்
சிங்கினை கூட தொலைத்து விட்டாய்!!
குனிந்தது போதும் நிமிர்ந்துவிடு - உந்தன்
மெத்தனப் போக்கினை களைந்து, விடு.
சிந்தனை, செயல்தனை இணைத்துவிடு - இன்று
புதியதாய் ஓர் விடியல் சமைத்துவிடு!
Tuesday, February 05, 2013
பூனையில் சைவம் கிடையாது
ஆண்களில் ராமன் கிடையாது
புரட்சிகள் ஏதும் இல்லம்மல்
பெண்ணுக்கு நன்மைகள் விளையாது
கண்ணகி சிலை தான் இங்குண்டு
சீதைக்கு தனியாய் சிலை எது?
சுதந்திரம் மட்டும் இல்லாமல்
சுவர்க்கமே இருந்தும் என்ன பயன்?
Vegetarian cats do not exist (like that)
There is no Lord Ram* amongst men.
There is no Womens liberation
Kannagi** has a statue of her own
Sita*** does not have a statue of her own
Whats the use of being in heaven,
Without any freedom?
* Lord Ram - was an Ideal symbol of Monogamy - in his time, it was common for the Kings to have many wives. More on Lord Ram here on Wikipedia.
** Kannagi - a Legendary Tamil Woman who symbolizes "Hell hath no fury" - She destroyed an entire city in order to avenge unjust execution of her husband by the Pandiya king. More here on Wikipedia.
*** Sita - Wife of Lord Rama, despite being treated badly by her Husband, she chose not to stand up for her rights. More here on Wikipedia.
Wednesday, January 16, 2013
What is that one rule when followed promises you a rewarding life?
Make a habit of doing something that you have never done before. Simples!
On Dec 2010, One of my friends introduced the rule to me. I toyed with the idea for a few weeks. After lots of introspection and internal debates I narrowed down on the one thing that I have never done before and wanted to do. Let me elaborate.
I used to workout 3 to 4 times a week, in an attempt to manage my weight and in the hope that it will compensate for my less than desirable lifestyle choices I had made earlier. I was not particularly happy with my level on consistency and commitment I showed in my gym visits.
Thats when I saw the promotion material for Henley Triathlon. Immediately it caught my fancy and guess what, I had NEVER participated in a triathlon before!
I slowly internalized the idea of me, a pleasantly plump, unfit, lump of flesh participating in a physically demanding task of swimming, cycling and running in quick succession and decided to give it a go. The six months leading up to Henley Triathlon 2011, I learned many lessons and I will always remember the moment, the feeling, and the effect of crossing the finish line, cherish it for a long time to come.
For the first few weeks of training, I was not as regular as I would have liked. It was cold outside, I had a long day at work, I had too little sleep last night...The excuses were nearly limitless. I decided to raise some money for cancer research, and asked my friends, relatives, colleagues to sponsor me. As slowly the money started trickling in, there was no turning back. I HAD TO COMPLETE my race. The mere thought that I had took money from so many people who in good faith have parted with their hard earned money plus the fact that I have to go back to them give it back saying that I did not compete kept me on my toes.2. Little and often - goes a long way
First challenge was to do a full 400m of swim. (I did a "fun" sized triathlon 400m Swim, 12.5 KM Bike and 2.5 KM run) I could barely swim for 12.5 meters (thats half length of our local swimming pool). First couple of weeks, I targeted 10 laps (8 would get me my 400m). I could not finish even 3 laps. I knew I had to change my approach. I focused on one full lap without any stop, did that for few weeks. Then moved to 2 laps without stop, then 3, and so on.
It so happened that on the day of the race, was the first time I finished 8 laps without a stop.3. Tread mill is no substitute for open space
Tread mill is just a mill. Open space - engages multiple senses, its fresh, allows you to notice the chirping birds, scurrying squirrels, the beautiful butterflies and wonder what sort of a storm are these fragile wings cooking up elsewhere. While you are at it, ditch your music player, you would not need it since you can tune into the rhythm of life.4. Exercise bike is easy (relatively)
The biggest learning for me was, training on an Excercise bike only get you so far. I do wish I had spent more time practicing on my bike on the road. I could have better understood my bike, the terrain and the appropriate gears to use.5. You can do more than you think
Often when I trained, particularly running, the first few minutes will be allright, and soon there comes a phase where I would feel that this is it, I have to stop. The first couple of times I did stop, but then one day, I just didn't stop. I kept going. Once I was past that uncomfortable phase I could go on and reach my goal.
Once you muscle your way through the initial "quit now" reflex, I guess all kinds of possibilities open up.6. Dont run for distance - run for time.
This was key. Foolishly I decided to practice my runs by targeting distance. I wanted to go for 1KM mark. As you might of guessed, I could not. Inability to reach your target, in a strange way, instead of motivating you do better next time, totally puts you off from trying.
Now I could not afford to give up. When I looked around in the forums for running/triathlon, I learnt that for newbie runners the trick is to run for time. Ie, Make a note of how long you are able to run at a steady pace, and simply aim to run longer than last time.
Combined with the next lesson, I was able to complete my 2.5 KM run.7. Interval training rocks
I can not recommend it more. Instead of running or working out at a steady pace, alternate between a very high intensity run followed by a medium pace run works your body harder and a very good tool to increase your stamina and also good for "after burn".8. Act, observe, adjust
The most important lesson of all, I learnt a major thing about problem solving. It does not matter what problem you are trying to solve, you need goals, and a action plan (avoid analysis paralysis). Here comes the important bit. Act, observe how the consequences of your action are playing out, and make adjustment to your execution plan and continue act, observe and adjust till the goal is reached.
I finished my race in about an 1h and 27minutes.
In my category I was the last but one.
The winner of the fun sized triathlon finished the race in 45 odd minutes.
2 Ladies, who looked much older than me over took me in cycling part of the race.
This year I am starting my second triathlon training - Not decided between the fun sized one or the sprint triathlon (800m Swim, 25KM bike and 5 KM run)
Gireesh Triathlon Teaser.
Gireesh Triathlon promotional video.
Selected images from Henley Triathlon 2011.
Tuesday, January 15, 2013
Friday, December 28, 2012
At 10th place, with 125 page views my tamil poem நான் வருவேன்.
This was my attempt at writing something to inspire the reader to recover from setbacks.
At 9th place, with 126 page views Psychology of Hinduism - Part II explores concepts of Worship.
At 8th place, with 126 page views a pictorial question Who Are you?
With 150 page views at 7th place "What Is The Golf Swing," by Roy McAvoy - nothing original in the post a mere record of a particular part of a movie that enjoyed the most.
சுவை a tamil haiku poem that I wrote in my late teens - a pun involving sour grapes takes the 6th place with 153 page views.
An Olympics 2012 inspired post Olympic Torch Relay, So what ? enjoys 5th place with 165 page views.
Christopher's smile charity (Details can be found here) who i support and wrote an article in my attempt to raise some funds Parent's Nightmare is at 4th place with 166 page views.
Setting up the context for the Psychology of Hinduism series, the part one article Psychology of Hinduism (Part 1) sits pretty at 3rd Place with 193 views.
With a 1000 page views, at second place, translation and commentary on one of my all time favorite songs Mannippaya ? Translation & Commentary
And the First place goes to another translation work by yours truly, Translation...New York Nagaram... with 1312 page views.
Friday, December 07, 2012
A quick translation of my poem சென்றுவா சிற்றழகே.
In memory of Sripriya V - Dec 1977 to Dec 2003.
கண்ணீர் காயுமா தொழி?
Can hanging from a fan
Wipe your tears dry?
சுற்றிய களைப்பு -
All of 24 years
You had to live
And you needed rest!
Just go my friend,
உகந்தவன் நான் இல்லை
Pleasure of sharing your pain,
Will never be mine.
You mocked me, When you left.
Just go my friend,
நீ தேடும் நிம்மதி
If the peace you are looking for
Can be found there,
Someone better than me
Can be found there...
Just go my friend,
கொண்டு - தள்ளாடி நடந்து
In the fullness of time,
As we age gracefully,
I hoped we will recount our
Pleasant days (college days)...
Just go my friend,
Oh God!!! Please forgive this girls sin.
My friend, in search of peace has reached you.
Please forgive her...
Monday, December 03, 2012
கண்ணீர் காயுமா தோழி?
சுற்றிய களைப்பு -
உகந்தவன் நான் இல்லை
நீ தேடும் நிம்மதி
கொண்டு - தள்ளாடி நடந்து
In loving memory of Sripriya - Dec 1977 to Dec 2003.
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
I feel anxious.
I feel adventurous.
I feel a bit sad.
I feel brave.
The feeling of exploring the unknown, not knowing whats in store for you, not knowing if you are going to be pleasantly surprised or massively disappointed.
Fandroids promise freedom to choose, break the shackles and be what you want to be.
Apple fans prefer to be bound, enjoy the ease of use and say you know what? freedom is irrelevant for, you have everything you need in the iTunes.
My wake up call came when I was forced to upgrade to latest version of iOS and that made my perfectly working, staying in the jail, iPhone 3G work like a lazy donkey on a sleeping pills. VERY SLOW. I had to buy the latest iPhone because
1. It was the fastest and greatest iPhone, yet.
2. I had apps that I bought, and liked using.
3. I did not think.
Now that more than 6 months passed between my iPhone 4S and Rema's iPhone 3G(S) has apparently outlived its life span, and now is the time to get a new phone. This time, I realize we have a choice.
We can take the blue pill and believe what ever we are told by Apple Fans, or take the red pill and see how true is the claims by Fandroids .
In a clever move, I convinced Rema that she should take my 4S and let me venture out and explore and see if there is truth in the Fandroids claims. As a chivalrous husband, I offered to take the red pill first, and then come back to rescue her.
Ordered Samsung S3 yesterday. The delivery is supposed to be between 1930 and 2130 hrs today. As I write this, I am waiting, for the red pill to reach the tummy and I begin to experience the "Real World", and As I wait,
I feel excited.
I feel anxious.
I feel adventurous.
I feel a bit sad.
I feel brave.
Wednesday, September 05, 2012
I cant even begin to think how I will react if a misfortune as cruel as loosing a child befalls on me.
A Nightmare, that lasts a lifetime!
There has been such a misfortune in my family, one of my relatives lost a Five year old child. I shudder even today to think about it.
Kevin lost his child Christopher to brain tumor. He and his wife, emerged strong from that, set up a charity. Today Christopher's smile charity is making contribution towards research of new treatments for children with cancer. Details can be found here.
I share an email sent to us by one of the supporters, requesting for a donation. If you can, do contribute to his cause.
Dear Christopher’s Smile supporter,
I would lirke to share with you that I have been selected to carry the Olympic flame in Guildford on Friday the 20th July. I now know exactly where I will be carrying the flame and by sharing this information I hope that many of you will be able to come along and support me. I will be carrying the Olympic flame on ‘The Chase’ between ‘The Oval’ and Old Palace Road. I expect to start my section of the route at approx 6:17 pm.
For a map of the area please see the link below:
My only wish is that Christopher was here to enjoy the Olympics. When Christopher was diagnosed with a brain tumour in October 2006, London had already been chosen to host the Olympics and prior to his diagnosis I had thought we as family could attend the games in 2012. Christopher would have been 10 years old and I’m sure he would have been eager to be involved in the games in any way he could.
The Olympic Games were awarded to London on the 6th July 2005. Since this announcement in 2005 over 2,500 children in the UK have lost their fight with cancer and are no longer with us. Sadly Christopher was one of these children. My thoughts as I carry the flame next Friday will be of Christopher and of the children we knew who are no longer with us who never got the chance to see the Olympic flame travel through our streets or experience the Olympics in our country.
In early September I am undertaking a challenge myself for Christopher’s Smile. I will be sailing with 11 other ‘volunteers’ across the channel to Cherbourg and back. I am not a sailor and my sailing knowledge is zero so for me this really will be something outside my comfort zone. I am doing this challenge to raise funds for research into new treatments for childhood cancer. If you would like to sponsor me please go to my fundraising page: http://uk.virginmoneygiving.
I hope to see you on the 20th in Guildford